Nicki come here! I’ve got the best secret to tell you! I just heard that Donna has a massive crush on–

   Whoa!! Hold up Taylor! Are you sure you should be telling me this?

  Why? Don’t you want to know?

   Well, it’s not that I’m not curious, but, well, does Donna really want me to know this?

  OMG Nicki!  Don’t be such a goodie-goodie! Of course Donna doesn’t want anyone to know this: it’s a secret!

   Then why are you telling me?

  Geesh… You know Nicki, sometimes I just do not get you!  Here I am trying to share something with you and you go and get all… weird on me!

  Well, secrets are private.  I don’t like it when people tell my secrets.

 Not all secrets are bad to tell, Nicki. Like when someone is giving a surprise party or something for someone.

   I’m not talking about those kind of happy secrets.  Happy secrets like a party or a college acceptance; those things have a more limited time span on them.  I’m talking about secrets that are not meant to come out. Like say..Donna’s crush. Those are bad to divulge.

 Nicki, secrets are a part of LIFE. Everybody has a secret about themselves!

 I don’t…

Where do you stand on secrets? As you will learn soon enough, the way you choose to deal with secrets says a lot about you as a person; it is a reflection of your character, and of your self. Steve has a point: everyone has a secret, so what’s the big deal? In this post, you will explore the various facets (aspects) of secrets. Some secrets may not be a big deal and may be a part of breaking the ice, strengthening friendships and bringing people together. While other secrets when shared may break those ties and connections to the friends and people around you. Read on to discover why secrets can be such a sensitive subject and to figure out the best way for you to deal with your own secrets and the secrets of others.

A Tricky Business

Sharing Secrets

When Is Sharing, Caring?

I’m a Secret in a Bottle, Baby

Bonus YSS: Secrets, According to Freud

Bonus YSS: Post Your Secret Anonymously!


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